I do realize you're at more of a disadvantage than I am, given the difference in our designations. But there are small ways to assert yourself. Setting your hard limits, for instance.
I confess I've never been quite so inhibited, save that brief period of time I was basically human.
Hard limits?
[ someone needs to teach him this, otherwise - he's a follower, orders are what he's used to, and he'll end up doing quite a bit he doesn't particularly want to, just because he's been told to. ]
I normally don't permit anyone to restrain me. The flogging could occur under select circumstances, as could the wax. But I'd likely be the deliverer of such things, rather than the recipient.
Most of us tend to just make it up as we go along.
Oh, I'm not, am I? [ she's mostly teasing him along those lines, if he's been in the position where others have been able to benefit from his adaptability as a bed partner. ]
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No. No, of course not.
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But there are small ways to assert yourself. Setting your hard limits, for instance.
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Hard limits?
[ someone needs to teach him this, otherwise - he's a follower, orders are what he's used to, and he'll end up doing quite a bit he doesn't particularly want to, just because he's been told to. ]
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Kinks that you're simply not interested in with any partner under any circumstances.
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I have to admit I'm very inexperienced when it comes to 'kinks'.
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That seems to be the case for many here. Either that or they simply don't have the language to describe what they want yet.
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Yes, I think that's my issue. What I want, what I don't want in regards to intercourse.
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What else...is there?
[ tell him yen, how does he find out he likes someone slapping his eyes and doing other unscrupulous shit ]
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Would you enjoy being tied up? Flogged? Having fresh candlewax dripped on you?
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Yes. I think I would. Would you?
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Is that personal preference or circumstance that puts you as deliverer? Either way, I'd let you. I trust you.
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Though if a certain partner was curious about the intricacies of something like the wax, or the flogger, I'd let them try it on me.
The best method of learning is by doing.
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Arbitrary. They come and go. Pain especially wasn't a worry. Here, it's different. I apologize if I seem naive.
It's because I am.
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You don't need to apologize to me.
Besides, I've noticed you catch on rather quickly.
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I admit, it's a positive on my account, I suppose. At this point you aren't the first to say that.
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Oh, I'm not, am I? [ she's mostly teasing him along those lines, if he's been in the position where others have been able to benefit from his adaptability as a bed partner. ]
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[ OH IF YOU COULD SEE HIS FACE ]
No. You are not..
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I wouldn't want to be the one with exclusive rights to your cock anyway.
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[ give him a moment, he's actually laughing ]
I'm hearing it's a good one. Cock, I mean.
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Getting positive feedback, then?
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[ he's ao fucking punny. ]
A little. From a few sources. [ /smug ]
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